Engagement Rings for Dummies

Just kidding! You’re not dummies for reading this article. In fact, if you’re here, you’re the reason Víya was created in the first place. So, thank you!


Víya was founded because my friends and family had trouble navigating the jewelry-buying process. With our expertise as diamond manufacturers, jewelry makers, and designers, we decided to change that. Our goal is to help clients cut through the noise and turn their dreams into reality.


If you’re new to the jewelry world and unsure of where to start, don’t worry—you’re not alone. We’ve got a simple checklist to guide you through this exciting journey as you prepare to pop the big question.

Step 1: Find the Right Ring Size

Knowing your significant other’s (SO’s) ring size is key. If you’re scratching your head on how to figure it out, here are some tips:

Use a Ring Sizer: We offer ring sizers that you can use to measure the correct size. Just ask us!

Use an Existing Ring: If your SO has a ring worn on their ring finger, bring it to us for sizing, or measure its circumference with a piece of string.

Step 2: Understand Their Style

Timing is everything when it comes to choosing the dream ring. Give yourself plenty of time to research and prepare, especially if you want to keep it a surprise.
To figure out your SO’s style:

Go Window Shopping: Visit jewelry stores together and pay attention to what they love.

Ask Their Friends: Close friends can be a treasure trove of information about your SO’s preferences.

Set a Budget: Decide on a budget early to help narrow down options.

Step 3: Learn the Basics

Understanding a few key terms can simplify the process:

The 4Cs: Diamonds are graded based on color, clarity, carat, and cut.

Learn more about the 4C's

Stone Types: While natural diamonds have long been the classic choice for engagement rings, we now have more options than ever.

Learn about Natural vs Lab Grown Diamonds
Learn about Diamond Alternatives

Shapes: Diamond/gemstone shape is one of the biggest style decisions when choosing a ring. Each shape has its own look and personality.

Explore our Diamond Shape Guide

Step 4: Design the Perfect Ring

Ring design includes elements like metal type, setting style, and personalizations.

Don’t worry if you don’t have a design in mind—after selecting the center stone (diamond or gemstone), we’ll collaborate with you to create something truly unique.
During our brainstorming session, we’ll bring out your creativity and refine your ideas into a design that will leave your SO speechless.

Anatomy of a Ring
Precious Metals
Learn more about our Custom Design Process